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Feather & 
Flame

Education. Consent. Connection.

Feather & Flame Consulting is a safe, judgment-free space for those exploring non-traditional relationships, including non-monogamy and BDSM. Through private coaching and in-person or virtual workshops, we provide grounded, experience-based education centered on consent, communication, and authentic connection. Whether you’re newly curious or just beginning to explore, you’ll find guidance, clarity, and a community that reminds you—you’re not alone.

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Let Your Curiosity Take Flight

  • Private coaching for dating, relationships, and alternative lifestyles

  • Workshops & classes (in-person + virtual) on BDSM, non-monogamy, and communication

  • Beginner-friendly education to help you explore safely and confidently

  • Consent, boundaries, and communication training for real-world application

  • Partner & relationship guidance to deepen connection and trust

  • Kink-aware, judgment-free support tailored to your unique journey

  • Community-centered learning spaces so you don’t have to explore alone

Our Facility

Designed with comfort and care in mind, our space offers a calm, inviting environment where people can explore, learn, and connect at their own pace.

Private Lessons

  • Dating Coaching

  • Relationship Coaching

  • Kink Professionals Business Development

  • Shibari for Connection & Relaxation

See Packages

Group Classes

  • Consent, Communication & Boundaries

  • Non-Monogamy & Modern Relationship Models

  • Foundations of BDSM & Power Exchange

  • Emotional Skills & Self-Discovery

  • Safety, Vetting, & Community Navigation

Upcoming Classes

Code of Conduct

  • Each organization typically has their own Code of Conduct

  • Attendees are expected to be familiar with our Code of Conduct, and abide by it.

  • The Code of Conduct exists to keep our community safe and ensure that everyone is treated with respect.

Read the Code of Conduct

Violations Reporting

  • We believe you <3

  • Our goal is to keep the community safe - that includes reporters.

  • Please read more about the process below:

Incident Report FAQs
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