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Feather & Flame Consulting

Discover your pathway to connection.

Expert guidance for alternative dating, relationships, and intimacy coaching.

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There is no normal - only what's right for you.

We believe in rewriting the rules of how relationships "should" work. We help people figure out what works for them - keep what fits, and scrap what doesn't!

It's about what makes you happy, what makes your partner happy, if you're already partnered, and building a tool kit of communication skills to successfully navigate your partnership. Every person is unique, and relationships are not one-size-fits-all.

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Exploring Love, outside the box

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Polyamory & consensual non-monogamy

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Consensual Power Exchange (BDSM)

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Communication, Boundaries, & Emotional Intelligence

Keep the spark alive

Relationships are a living thing - the result of living souls meeting together: they need love, nurturing, room to breathe, and adventure!

Sharing a life together is no easy task. It's not about going "back" to when you first met, and it's not about "fixing" where you are now. It's about where you're going next - writing your next chapter together - filled with connection, love, and adventure!

Couples coaching

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Explore, connect, and learn with like-minded community.

Join a welcoming education space for practical tools, honest conversation, and community connection.

Group classes

Photography

It's not about looking "like a model." It's about capturing your true, genuine self.

From dating profile pics to fashion, fine art, and boudoir!

Affordable rates.

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Success Stories

Paul, 54

6 month program - private coaching

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Sam, 35

3 month program - private coaching

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Anna, 43

Group Classes

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